Wednesday, October 27, 2004

Looking Backwards.

Oct 27, 2004

What with moving and now unpacking, I haven't been able to write much. I've been looking at some photos on my camera's card (wonder what my dad would've made of that: "a camera card? No film?") wanting to clear it of its contents and came across photos I took a few days after the move. We went back to our old house to fetch the contents of the one single drawer that Stacey forgot to pack. (Don't ask). And so I had my opportunity, missed on hectic moving day, of shooting the house, empty.

It was strange to see my old home vacated of its contents, sounds of our footsteps echoing through the empty rooms. The buyer, we hear through the grapevine, is not moving in but renting it out for the time being. Apparently, they haven't sold their condo as they expected and so they won't be moving in anytime soon. And that also means, I think, that the house, won't be a "tear down", unusual for Manhattan Beach, but, instead, will be renovated and preserved for the time being. We've heard that one before and it's turned out to be not so. We'll see.


Looking to the front of our empty house.



And to the back.


Dani, artist that she is, decorated her bi-fold doolrs in her bedroom. This was a many year project that coincided with her enraptured adoration of the rock group Smashing Pumpkins. And so the doors (no pun intended) took on the shibboleths of the lead singer, Billy Corgan.

Take a look. I love them. We didn't take the doors with us -- except in my camera. Hey Dad, they're on my hard drive now. And now they're on my Blog!


Dani's beautiful doors in her bedroom.


An overview of Dani's doors.


Detail of Dani's doors.


Detail of Dani's door.

Friday, October 22, 2004

Unsettled In Brooklyn.

Oct 22, 2004

Moving sucks. First a month or so of hell - intense pressure to pack up 26 years into cardboard boxes in a month's time. Now the pressure's gone. But the tsoris remains - I'm living in cardboard hell - boxes everywhere, I have to walk sideways through narrow passages that we've left to negotiate from room to room. And where is everything? Today Stacey suddenly realized that she forgot to empty one of our kitchen drawers.

I feel quite beat up. My back aches. My knee is blown up, the victim of moving heavy boxes up and downstairs, kneeling on the floor installing our new stove and microwave. Today I ran a water pipe to the refrigerator so it can produce ice and cold water. We moved dozens of boxes into the backyard (under a shed roof that will somewhat protect them from rain). That, so we can get into the rear guest room and build shelves to hold at least some of the contents of those blasted boxes. Our friends have offered storage at their country house for at least some of those containers. And maybe the landlord will allow some more storage in the basement. And I think, we'll just have to part with stuff that we haven't been willing to throw out. Again, if you haven't seen this stuff for five or ten years, then does it really exist?

I know that the time will come in a month or so when we can say we're settled. But for now it's unsettling, confusing, depressing.

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Last night we walked around the corner to Vanderbilt Avenue and discovered a lovely Italian restaurant - Aliseo. The owner, Albano, has a heavy Italian accent and hails from the Marche region of Italia and so the cuisine reflects that origin. It's a small, warm and cozy room with wallpapered walls and a tin ceiling. The food was delicious. A real find.

Earlier, we walked over to the Brooklyn Museum and met our friend Tamar. She's a public school art teacher and uses the museum regularly as a teaching tool for her students. We had lunch at the cafeteria and took a tour of two current shows: John Singer Sargent and his portraits of children from before and after the turn of the last century and a more contemporary artist, Kehinde Wiley. He's a young Black artist who uses Black males as models. He discovers them on the street, interviews them briefly in his studio where he allows them to peruse the great classical portraits painted through the ages. He then asks them which pose is their favorite and then photographs them in that very same stance. He bids his model farewell and the painting is made later from those photos. They're large works that blend the classical pose with a portrait of young Black man man dressed in modern street garb. Add a touch of very colorful whimsy and a dramatic juxtaposition of the old and the new. A video shows the young artist at work in his Harlem studio.


Young Black man as a saint ascending to heaven?

The neighborhood is, from my first glance, wonderful: diverse, young and hip. And the politics? I've never seen so many Kerry posters in so many windows. Not to mention the derisive Bush signs in house after house. I love the brownstones and I love walking down the side streets that run from our place on Underhill Avenue over to Flatbush Avenue.

This is a biking neighborhood for sure. Our street is very quiet with very little car traffic. But just three blocks away, Flatbush Avenue is a major artery and is overrun with trucks and cars. Walking or bicycling is the way to get around. And the neighborhood kisses all the other neighborhoods that I love so much: Park Slope, Cobble Hill, Boerum Hill, Clinton Hill and Brooklyn Heights. Manhattan is just minutes away as well - by car or by subway.

In future blogs I hope to document with word and picture just what this new neighborhood means to us and why we like it so much. Please check back.

Monday, October 18, 2004

Mission Accomplished.

Oct 18, 2004

Sorry for using that much derised George Bush declaration. But in this case it fits. We moved in yesterday, Saturday, October 16th, 2004. It was the Move From Hell.Ten hours it took...I've never seen four human beings work as hard as the guys who took our stuff of 28 years, pile it into their truck and move it 7 miles from West End Avenue in Manhattan Beach to Underhill Avenue in Prospect Heights.

May as well have moved it around the world for the vast differences in those two neighborhoods. More of that in future blogs.

Just suffice it to say that I'm very tired. I don't think I've ever felt this beat up - physically. My right knee is swollen with fluid. I can't bend it or kneel on it. My lower back is sore. Haven't been to the gym in weeks. Nor have I ridden my bike. I miss that so much but the act of moving is so demanding on time and energy - we've focused on nothing but the move for the last month. The pressure was intense - the deadline was Friday the 15th but the forecast was for heavy rain so we prevailed on the mover to move it up to Saturday. Still - it never seemed to end. The more we packed into boxes, the more depressed and agitated I became. There was always more. And, of course, the other question was: where the hell are we going to put all this stuff. (More on that also in a later Blog).

So. It was a terrible experience that people shoudl try to avoid at all costs. Why do we accumulate so much stuff? That's really the question to be answered. The corollary is: Why can't we part with it more easily? The theory should be, I believe: if you haven't touched it or laid eyes on it in many years, then, for all intents, it don't exist - bye, bye! But no! That resulting contradiction led to lots of tension and arguments between my wife and me.

But now it's over. And we're here. And we survived. I think. It'll be several months before this lovely apartment in an old Brooklyn brownstone on a great Brooklyn street takes shape. But that will come and there's no horrible time constraint as there was before the move. I just can't wait to dig into my new neighborhood - which is just where I want to be: it's great here -- diverse, tree-lined, low-rise, great old buildings, the great Park, the library, the museum, the restaurants...yes, the restaurants. The other night we sauntered around the corner to Vanderbilt Avenue and had Indian food - couldn't do that in Manhattan Beach. We wanted to try the very sweet Italian restaurant that was next door but it was Friday night and the line was out the door. Next time.

I think I'm gonna like this very much. Time will tell. But right now time is telling me to get into bed and get some needed rest. Tomorrow we close on the sale of our old house and a large part of our lives will begin to fade away. The new chapter starts now.


Moving day and our old house is bare walls and lots and lots and lots of boxes...ready to go.


A poster of Dani at a very young age stands forlornly, waiting to be moved to the new apartment. What to do with all those pictures?


Moving van is here. Goodbye old house of 26 years. My parents' house (sold in April) stands overgrown on right.

Sunday, October 03, 2004

You Say You Never Had A Wild Turkey?

Oct 3, 2004

We visited my best friend Lonnie yesterday and took (Stacey's cousin) Stephanie and her husband, Ray, with us. Should have been packing but, what the hell, we still have 16 days left ... we can finish that any time. Oy.

Our idea was to attend the once-a-month auction held in Cuddebackville, the town-ette near Lonnie's country house. These are real country auctions where you can get great prices on antiques, collectables, furniture. So we started off, in the rain, in the car, and, after 3 hours or so, arrived. A little meal of ribs, shrimp and wine was served and then we were off to the auction.

Well, not quite. As Lonnie was taking the new guests on a tour of his manse he spied a flock of wild turkeys in his back forty. Quick as you can say Thanksgiving is a comin,' Lonnie was gone. Stephanie thought that he, being the photographer that he is, was off to "shoot" the turkeys with his camera. I knew better. Like a flash he ran through the living room where I had been sitting with Stacey and Monique, shotgun in hand and a strange expression on face. He didn't quite run. But if you've seen racing walkers and the strange way that they stride, then you've imagined what Lonnie looked like as he whizzed through the house. Out across the meadow he headed. I could swear the turkeys did a double take as they saw Daniel Boone cum elderly Jew from Brooklyn race toward them. They headed swiftly into the forest, Lonnie in pursuit. The next thing we heard was the loud report of the gun and then ... silence.

Well, my friend Lonnie, the great hunter that he is, has been trying to bag a wild turkey for lo many years. He has never succeeded. But we will now remember and consecrate the second day of October forever more as the day that Lonnie brought home the bird. Actually, two birds.

October 2, 2004 - the day that Lonnie flipped the bird, er, birds.
No doubt you're familiar with that old TV theme song for the pioneer Daniel Boone:



Daniel Boone was a man,
Yes, a big man!
With an eye like an eagle
And as tall as a mountain was he!
Daniel Boone was a man,
Yes, a big man!
He was brave, he was fearless
And as tough as a mighty oak tree!
From the coonskin cap on the top of ol' Dan
To the heel of his rawhide shoe;
The rippin'est, roarin'est, fightin'est man
The frontier ever knew!
And now Stephanie and Ray's version:


My friend Lonnie's a man
A nice Jewish man.
Equipped with a gun,
Though mostly for fun.
Shooting away
But with mostly dismay
Until that fateful October day
With a visit from Steph and Ray.
The turkeys, they were nibbling in the meadow
Unaware of this fearless gun-toting fellow.
Then the birds they were shot
But by a camera - - NOT!
Were the turkeys tired? Slow?
Sadly, this we will never know.
But one thing is for sure,
Lonnie's settled the score.
Now it's man over beast
At this November's Thanksgiving feast.

Friday, October 01, 2004

The Debate Should End The Debate - Shouldn't It?

Oct 1, 2004

To the doubters out there, last night's debate should have ended the debate as to the caliber of George Bush. I really tried to be objective (it's hard when it comes to Bush because the man engenders very strong negative feelings in so very many people), to put my views aside and to see what a less partisan person might see watching the debate. Was there any contest here? First of all, to my mind, vast differences in positions. Here's what I heard:

Kerry: Essentially against the doctrine of preemptive war. We need alliances in this complex world and must respect the opinions of mankind.
Bush: Arrogantly: "I don't need a permission slip", etc.

Kerry: For continuing on the path of nuclear disarmament.
Bush: Acting to weaken historic disarmament treaties. Wants to develop a new generation of nukes to defend us from whom??

Kerry: Global warming to be taken as a serious threat.
Bush: Pulled out of Kyoto. "Global warming is not proven."

Kerry: Iraq is a disaster. Bush made a colossal blunder.
Bush: Iraq? No problem. Bring'em on! Mission Accomplished!

Kerry had a very fine command of facts and figures. But he didn't sermonize. He was calm but on target. He sounded and looked reasonable and "Presidential."

Bush on the other hand was on the defensive for 70% of the evening. He seemed peevish and testy and struggled for words, rebuttals and answers, continously returning to a carefully rehearsed theme: "I'm consistent. People know what I stand for." But further than that he couldn't travel. And I believe people saw that and it should give them pause that this man of limited intelligence and complexity is the head of the world's most powerful military. I don't know how many times he repeated the phrase "mixed messages". Another oft-used phrase by the President who has spent most of his Presidency on vacation in Crawford, Texas, was that waging war was "hard work." Yeah, probably about as hard as his stint in the Texas National Guard.

Polls, taken afterwards by various news media , put the win for Kerry at anywhere from 70 to 30 down to 60 to 40. Of course, the spinmeisters and talking heads went to work immediately trying to save the day for King George, I hope to no avail. Is this the turn-around we've been waiting for? Time will tell. One thing is clear. Kerry (and his advisors) have finally seen the light. You cannot win the election by being Bush light. Ain't gonna work and it wasn't working - he was falling further and further behind. By taking a forthright stand against the war (he still has more to go in that regard) and putting the blame where it belongs on Bush and his neo-con gang, he can wrap up the election on November 2.

Bush appeared to be astounded that Kerry would criticize him, The War President. After all, that's what Rove and Cheney had assured him. Kerry put that one to rest and now the tragedy, blunders and lies of 4 years of Bush are fair game. Go get him, John!

We watched the debate at Jerry's, a Soho restaurant on Prince Street. The crowd, as any New York crowd would be, was about 90% Kerry. There were two Wall Street 30-something Bushies in the crowd. And, in a friendly manner, there was a back and forth between them (they were vociferous on behalf of George) and the rest. But even they (and this impressed me) had to admit that George lost the night badly. Did it change their mind? I don't know. It certainly had to plant the seeds of doubt.


Jerry's on Prince Street. Nice little bar and restaurant, just
a block west of Broadway.



Watching the debate at Jerry's.

Afterwards, and to my amazement, the crowd broke into a chant:
"Hey, Hey! Ho, Ho! George Bush has gotta go!" I'm not kidding. They actually did that. Over and over. One cool young guy at the bar began it and the entire place picked it up! I had absolutely nothing to do with it except to join in. New York is not Arkansas, that's for sure.

Joining us for dinner was Stacey's cousin Stephanie (in town for a trade show at the Pier) and her employee and friend, Emily, who lives in Jacksonville, Florida. She complains because she is ardently anti-Bush and it's not easy down there in that part of Florida. And so she was elated and cheered by the scene in the bar.


Emily on Prince Street - after the debate.


Stacey, Stephanie and Emily on Broadway.

This is the most important election in our lifetime if not in the history of our country. Despite a complacent and compliant media that misleads our people and distorts the truth; despite the lies, smears and calumnies of the Bush Gang, I believe the truth will out. Bush can spout(and the media can support) the bull about bringing Democracy to Iraq. He can paint a rosy picture in the face of terrible tragedy. But sooner or later, as Lincon pointed out, most of the people will be fooled no longer. Let's hope it's sooner.